Thursday, August 30, 2012

A Wink at the Moon and a Lesson in Humility





This is a good week to look up at the night sky and wink at the FULL MOON alright; I have every night so far! It seems brighter for some reason or I just have not appreciated it enough until now. It seems so close, yet it took tremendous effort, determination, faith, nerves of steel and a willingness to go where no one has gone before. That is what makes America so great, we dream big and we make it happen because we work together to make it so.


I posted this on my facebook page regarding the passing of legendary astronaut Neil Armstrong. Being an Ohio native who watched the moon landing, I will forever remember it as the week I turned seven years old. Not yet a Cub Scout at the time, I remember the collector glasses that you could get at the local store that commemorated the event. It was not until later in life that I learned that Neil Armstrong was an Eagle Scout as were many of the men who went into space. What an honor to attend the same camp as Neil Armstrong with my son on the fortieth anniversary of the moon landing. Now that Mr. Armstrong has passed these surly bonds of earth, I am compelled to put a few things into perspective.

It does not take a hero to have faith in something greater than yourself or superhuman strength to overcome adversity in life; it only takes a dream and a little help from a few like minded people with the audacity to think that anything is possible. With all of the political jockeying going on in our country right now, I am realizing that my beliefs, dreams, aspirations and hopes in life are tied to a few simple ideas that have been passed down through time immemorial.

America as we know it began very different than the way we see in the modern era. People came for various reasons and circumstances. Some were born here and were open to the idea that sharing a place to live was a natural part of how human beings behaved. For others, freedom for themselves, their children and future generations gave them the resolve to endure an arduous ocean voyage, sickness and even death to have the opportunity to live in peace. Still, for others the choice was not their own and they reached these shores in bondage and destined to live out their lives in slavery. And still, many came as a result of war or the slim hope that opportunity would bring prosperity to their humble lives.

As I sit here composing my thoughts this morning, I cannot remember an instance in the past eighteen years where I had to practically beg to keep the lights on in my home or contemplated the value of it being less than what I owed. It is indeed a reality of the modern age that people are suffering in this great land from financial crisis that is not of their own making. Jobs are few and wages dwindling, crops are failing due to drought and storms pound the southern shores and threaten yet again the well being of those who endured the same not long ago. Yet, in spite of all of this there is hope in the life and death of one man who dared to push the envelope of fate and emerged victorious shoulder to shoulder with his crew and the thousands who gave their collective minds a shot at infamy.

Yes, I have stood outside in my back yard all this week and winked at the moon for Neil Armstrong’s sake, for I think we learn from his courage and humility that life is a delicate balance of faith. hope and a tiny morsel of insanity that pushes us as a nation to go beyond what the radical extremists tell us is not worthy of God’s attention and that our free thinking is an infidel’s folly. No, we are one nation under God and we will continue on as a lesson that Neil Armstrong taught us by example. And so, let us wink at the moon tonight and be humbled beneath a heavenly sky full of possibilities. Let us throw into the fire that which does not grow our determination and watch it fade away in a vapor.


Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Lost and Found

You see them posted at elementary schools, churches and camps, a sign: Lost and Found. I think that the older I get the more things I tend to lose; maybe it is because I have more on my mind or that I have accumulated more stuff to keep track of. In any case, we all have lost something at one time or another and eventually found it wherever we last saw it or someone has brought it back to us. On the other hand, there are things we will never see again either because what we have lost is somewhere we cannot get to or because it was destroyed. One thing that never goes away is the love of God.

We may stray from the flock and get lost in the ways of the world, or we may simply lose track of our journey in life because of the pitfalls and detours that send us off on a whole new direction. My life seems to revolve around these detours, and yet, I have gone nowhere. Yes, my faith has been challenged, my body beaten and my ego bruised, but one thing remains constant; the presence of a higher power within that is renewed every time I enter in presence and prayer.

My wife has been a model to me for her daily devotion and dedication to setting aside time for reflection, journaling and silent prayer. But even this has not kept her from struggling with all of the worldly concerns that take away the joy and intimacy from our marriage. It seems as though we have lost something precious or that we are being challenged to accept something brand new into our relationship that only God can provide. I am writing about it today because I do not know how else to deal with the sense of failure I feel about my life. Maybe I am just feeling sorry for myself for having made poor choices about finances, work or the unfortunate circumstances that have placed more burdens on my wife. All I can say to her is “I’m sorry.”

Today, I read from the gospels about how the least among us becomes the greatest and how the lost are sought out and brought back into the fold. Well, I am feeling a little lost right now, especially since things have not gone well at home, but I cannot allow this to put my love out of reach or to destroy a relationship that has shown me the greatest joy. And so I take up my daily burden and admit my faults and failings and ask my Savior to forgive all I have done and failed to do for the sake of being found once again. May the love of God bring you peace and find you well this day. Amen

Monday, August 13, 2012

The Olympic Hangover

In the city of London, the first full day after the Olympics has to feel like a massive hangover. While the world watched a successful and carefully edited version of the events that took place, I wonder how the average citizen of London dealt with the traffic delays, huge wondering crowds and the massive media attention that swarmed their city. I cannot help wondering if most Londoners are feeling a collective sigh of relief that it is over and that they can get on with their lives.

I know in my own life there have been times when I looked forward to a particular event that took months to plan and prepare for that suddenly came and went before I had a chance to fully process in my mind. Kind of like the day after a wedding when the bride and groom have gone off to share some time away from the daily grind of life to solidify their bond to each other. While it is a relief to know that everything turned out as planned, there is that let down of knowing the day is past and all that remains is a collection of photographs and memories to remind of that wonderful time. Funny, how I remember that it rained on my own wedding day, but it is not what I chose to focus on afterwards. They say that rain is a blessing for a wedding day so I guess that is what I stored away in my memory banks about that special occasion. Is there a special day that you can recall in your own life?

The lessons we learn and the memories we cherish are but fleeting examples of what “living large” is all about. We cannot spend all of our time looking forward to that big event to come along to get us motivated to live. It is the every day events of our lives that all too often get passed up and we forget to appreciate the little things that make life so precious. I hope that there are more things to remember for Londoners than what was displayed over the telee during the last two weeks. I am sure there were babies born, weddings performed and work that was done just as there were walks in the park, prayers said and tears wiped away.

Let us all remember to take a few moments out of our daily lives to appreciate every little thing that makes us who we are and challenges us to be. We certainly do not receive a medal for being a good parent or hard worker, but we are blessed with life and the opportunity to grow closer to the one who created us in his image. Let us pray for preparedness and being appreciative for every moment that life gives us, for time is short yet a gift all the same.

Thursday, August 9, 2012

The Thrill of Victory and the Agony…






I remember as a kid watching ABC sports on television. They always started out with the voice of Jim Mckay announcing the introduction with video of various sports events. And probably the most famous words in broadcast sports: “The Thrill of victory and the agony of defeat.” I remember the Russian weight lifter boldly pushing an enormous barbell over his head and the unlucky ski jumper sliding off the end of the ramp.

We all have experienced our own versions of victory and defeat; we surely do not need to watch the Olympics on television to know what it looks like or feels when life throws us an unexpected curve ball. There are moments like the Chinese hurdler who tried valiantly to overcome injury only to fail clearing the first hurdle in a qualifying race or the runner who gave every last ounce of effort only to finish fourth place and out of medal contention. But eventually our attention is diverted to the athlete who overcomes past pain and defeat to accomplish a lifelong dream of draping themselves in the flag of their home country. These often times become the image that sticks with us as we turn off the television set and settle in for a long nights sleep.

I have seen my own share of the thrill and agony of life on and off the field, but I need to remember to temper my public displays of complaint about the unfortunate as there are always people out there who have had it far tougher than I have. My friend Michael comes to mind as I recently found out that he lost his wife of twenty four years. While it is difficult to read his postings on facebook about the realities of loneliness and heart ache, I am glad he can share his feelings with those he calls friends. Just as the sprinter who finishes the race and sees his or her name appear first on the big screen, I know that life also rewards us with golden moments to cherish like the birth of a child or the moment we find the love of our lives.

Our creator God has given us a wonderful technique in which to teach us the ways of the world. He gives us perspective so that at the end of the day we can sit in our own version of the sunset and balance out the beauty and harsh realities of life on earth. He gives us the wonders of nature and the hugs of our loved ones to put things as they should be so that we can keep on living with hope and the knowledge that with agony comes victory.

Peace and love. Witt

P.S. Here's that video I mentioned. Are you old enough to remember this?